05-10-2025 05:44 PM
05-10-2025 05:44 PM
i honestly see Pooks in that face! @Dreamy @Chasingsunsets hello @AlwaysMyself @bunniekins @Jynx @heartathome @PeppiPatty
05-10-2025 06:02 PM
05-10-2025 06:02 PM
@Blackcloud is RSD in leymans terms when rejection impacts feelings and self valuation more than you want it too?
to enter into a room and 20 people think im half decent and 1 person doesn't i will hone in on that person and not be able relax or enjoy the night wanting to give them good reason to reject me
05-10-2025 06:07 PM
05-10-2025 06:07 PM
@Dreamy hey Dreamy hope you day is going well sweetheart. love you. bun bunxxx
05-10-2025 06:26 PM
05-10-2025 06:26 PM
@REDLINEZ750 wrote:
@Blackcloud is RSD in leymans terms when rejection impacts feelings and self valuation more than you want it too?
to enter into a room and 20 people think im half decent and 1 person doesn't i will hone in on that person and not be able relax or enjoy the night wanting to give them good reason to reject me
Hiya @REDLINEZ750 @Blackcloud you have activated my special interest!! Hahaha
Buuuut rather than ramble at you a bunch I will just send this amazing write up - Three Pillars: Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria
Summary from the link -
"RSD is an extreme (dysphoria means “difficult to bear”) emotional reaction to the perception of rejection, failure, or criticism – regardless of the circumstantial reality."
I think the key part is the 'perception' part, cos RSD can kick off hard even when we aren't actually experiencing rejection, but it just feels like we are.
05-10-2025 06:33 PM
05-10-2025 06:33 PM
Hello my sweet @Bunniekins, it hasn't been a bad day but I'm exhausted. Hope you've had a good day. Love you beautiful ❤️
05-10-2025 06:48 PM
05-10-2025 07:00 PM
05-10-2025 07:00 PM
@Glisten darling I would take those boulders from your shoulders if I had my way.
My shoulders and back have been really painful the past couple of days and I ended up buying a massage pad for my office chair and a shoulder massager. The chair mat is to replace the one I had, forgot to take the batteries out and they went all yicky and ecky. Oops. It works well as a light massage for the back and shoulders.\
The shoulder massager looks scary and painful, I think I'll wait until my shoulders aren't hurting before I try it out.
How was your Saturday? I had a technology ban so that I could focus on other things. I did my bible study, listened to music and TV whilst doing my diamond painting and looked wistfully out the window as it rained, wishing I was out there pottering around the pots.
Tonight I plan to cook the intricate Chiko Roll in the air fryer. I will need plenty of concentration for that job.
What have you been up to? Did I tell you the lovely @avant-garde named a teddy after me? I felt so honoured and blessed. The teddy is gorgeous. I love teddies.
Hopefully I'll get to the nursery or Funnings after I get paid so I can get some more plants. I have a couple to add to the collection. Instead of a Zen Garden, I shall have the Sane Garden.
Mr MM sends his....well his version of like (meow, mrow mrow, purr purr)
And I send my loves 😍
05-10-2025 07:02 PM
05-10-2025 07:02 PM
@Jynx oooh thanks for sharing that link darling Jynxy. That is definitely a thread I want to read more about. Look at you, all this and much brains too. You're the full package 😘
05-10-2025 07:06 PM
05-10-2025 07:06 PM
Love these @Mustang67 thanks so much for sharing ❤️
05-10-2025 07:07 PM
05-10-2025 07:07 PM
@Jynx @REDLINEZ750 @Blackcloud after having read what the three of you shared about RSD. I have come to the conclusion that that I must have the opposite.
There are a LOT of people you think are ok, and then they creepy-weird you out.
Me:👋🏼 No thanks I don’t need any.💨
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