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[Emelia8]

Ohhhh poor @Shaz51 ... so much happening, and all at once too.

I hope your Mum is feeling a bit better now, and that Mr Shaz's rash starts to improve.

You may well be right ... carer burnout may well be whats happening.

The nurse was very thoughtless and naughty to make you feel to blame for them not phoning you.

No use saying to you to take some time out ... I know you cant. 

But I wish you could get some additional help, at least with your mums needs.

Hopefully you can have a bit of time out for yourself over the weekend.

Has the cyclone gone now?  You mentioned you had no power for a while today.

Hugs my friend.

Emelia 🤗💕

[Former-Member]

@Shaz51 

Can you get a bath in tonight?

[Shaz51]

no bath here @Former-Member , @Emelia8 

The house we cleaned this morning with no power and water , the owner arrived home to day and rang me up to talk about the housesiter, she stopped taking her meds and she was a mess when we were there

mum has had dinner and a shower 

going to wash the dishes now 

[Anastasia]

So much @Shaz51 !!!!

So sorry hun, thinking of you 🙏💕🤗🌺🌷

[Shaz51]

Going to dry the dishes and then a shower  @Anastasia , @Former-Member , @Emelia8 , @Mellysmellyelly , @Determined 

[Faith-and-Hope]

 💞💞💞 @Shaz51 ....... hugs n hugs Hon ..... that's so tough going.  The hospital must have been repeat-dialling the wrong number.

[Former-Member]

Are you able to get in a mini self care item tonight @Shaz51?

[Shaz51]

I think soo too @Faith-and-Hope , but the nurse kept going  and going saying she had the right number and it was all my foult 

dont know why , it was sooo upsetting to be called a liar 

and it would of been so late , they close the hospital doors at a certain time 

the other nurse said mum had a bed and had a good nights sleep 

they rang mum`s sister this morning and then would not let her take mum home , arrggggg 

mr shaz is having a shower now @Former-Member 

[Shaz51]

Thank you  @Former-Member , @Faith-and-Hope , @Anastasia , @Emelia8  I am off to bed 🥰❤❤💝💖

[Emelia8]

Good night @Shaz51 ... sleep soundly. 💞💤