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[Sparky79]

@Mustang67 as the support button still isn't working for me, here's a manual support post

[Mustang67]

Thank you @Sparky79 I appreciate it ☺️

[Mustang67]

I saw this on FB and thought it would be a good reminder for everyone.

Stay away from people who lie to you, disrespect you, use you or try to bring you down. It’s not being selfish when you protect your peace, it’s necessary. Some people only hang around to take advantage of your kindness, sap your energy, or hijack your support. The more you give it, the more they take. You don’t owe anyone a reason for you to leave. Love yourself enough to walk away from anything that makes you feel bad. And surround yourself with honest speakers and those who have higher regard for you. Your environment shapes your heart. Choose those who make you grow, not the ones that break you.

Neena Gupta.

ⓒ Love Is An Emotion of Strong Affection

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[DownMoreThanUp]

@Mustang67 Although i do completely stand with you about to - NEVER HANG AROUND THOSE WHO PUT YOU DOWN - i still always pray for those people who treat me like that.

@Jynx @Sparky79 @Bunniekins @Appleblossom @Moose123 @heartathome @ENKELI 

Not trying to sound pious friends, but because i now know they will end up receiving the same treatment they handed out in the end. (karma, God's Wrath, or the riocochay, are true enough) Not that i pray such people would stay nasty like that, but rather i pray they also learn to let go of bad life like that FOREVER, and instead grow REAL LOVE and to learn and respect the difference of others, instead of treat them badly.

i do admit at times i do still struggle here coping the full brunt of people's dislike, but i do know that where i have learned to do this, it has been very liberating from the nasty feeling such people would always cast on me, while thinking about them, or worse have to face them, or when i raged at such people when psychotic.

For i  feel a deep pity for them and what awaits them doing shit like that to others.

When someone raises themselves above you, make sure they do not drop on you coming down.

[heartathome]

Your personal support button @DownMoreThanUp 

 

 

[Mustang67]

@DownMoreThanUp that is very gracious of you to pray for them.

I agree with both of your images and can't wait to stand by and watch it happen to my ex-husband for losing my beautiful house, where I was going to raise our daughter. And the crap he has put both of us through and is still putting my daughter through 😡😠

[DownMoreThanUp]

@Mustang67 i so understand where you are coming from, revenge is a wonderful flame in the heart of those been hurt.

Would it not be wonderful when such evils are not ever done again my friend? Doing wrong to others is so loveless and degrading. And it sure would be wonderful if your husband burned his bad life off and found good to become a nice guy instead.

Such events would really make my heart rejoice forever more. To see the wicked burn and all their victims set free from life lived in bad is my daily prayer and hope.

(LOUD AS WORKS GOOD  GETTING THE MOTION GOING!😁)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0J2QdDbelmY&list=RDMM&index=12

[Cuddlebear]

@Dreamy Hello my friend. How are you? How did things go with the GP today? I really hope they were able to help. 

I didn’t even manage the online shop. Just couldn’t do it. 

Thank you so much for being so kind and understanding. I’m lucky I’ve got you and others here who do care. 

Let me know how you are? I hope there’s been some hekp for your toothache today. 

[Cuddlebear]

@ENKELI  Hello beautiful friend. How are you? Have you had a good day today? I really hope you have because you are important to me too and deserve it. 

[Mustang67]

@DownMoreThanUp I would want nothing more than the ex to become a nicer, and better person. His bad attitude and behaviour are not heathy for my daughter. My daughter has even gone to his partner and told her, that something needs to be done about him. They have both had a gutful. He is constantly yelling at her for smallest of things. And he has even hit her on a couple of occasions. And then just like the usual abuser, promises it will never happen again. Until it does. I have reported his abuse to the police, and my daughter had told the counsellor at school. Apparently even her school knows what his temper is like as he went off at someone there and the counsellor was called in to calm him down.

I mentioned to my daughter just the other day about karma, and her response was, maybe I am his karma. I asked her what she meant by that, and she responded that her dad wants nothing more, but for her to love him, but she will not love him, because she does not reward bad behaviour. She is only 16, and even she can see that he needs to learn how the deal with his anger and whatever else his problems are

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